Personal choice for happiness.
Did you wake up later today, and became saddened, saying to yourself: I started late the workday that others started earlier?
Why not understand that you have started the next workday, bringing forward tasks, resolutions and initiatives deemed for tomorrow?
You try to be Christian and it sounds difficult to forgive what you consider serious flaws, of people who share your intimacy?
But if Jesus asked us to forgive our enemies, loving them as we love ourselves, what does not He expect us to do with respect to our friends? The very Christ of Truth answers us, categorically asserting that the true friend is the one who gives his life for his friends—and He Himself proved this to us, with His example.
Do you remember unhappy occasions, tremendous failures of the past, downfalls or negligence for which you would hardly forgive yourself?
Why not understand that instead of being a victim of external or internal factors, the correct and best course of action, from all angles of observation, is to opt to perceive yourself as a winner over unfortunate circumstances, making it worthy, before your own consciousness, the image of someone who has acted with heroism, rather than someone deserving the title of victim of the injustice from others or even taking on the role of your own tormentor?
Perspective is individual, the choice for the level of attunement and of interpretation of life’s events are strictly personal and non-transferable. You will never be able to assign to others the responsibility for your own unhappiness, no matter how much you believe you have been the subject of injustice by external factors or circumstances, which just mirror your most urgent evolutionary needs.
Decide to feel good. Determine yourself to be deeply fulfilled. Attend to what you already know to be the call of your conscience, the voice of your vocation, God’s Will for you, in the physical existence that you presently enjoy. And take this decisive and practical attitude, which fosters the best in your pathways, not only in a timely manner, but in a systematic, disciplined and vehemently firm way.
Do not grant anything nor anyone the power to define your life choices, your universe of values, your parameters of observation and interpretation of events, people or possibilities of being, feeling and behaving. Usually, those who violate or try to violate this sacred field of your soul are those who care the least about your happiness.
Finally, friend, regardless of who you are or consider yourself to be, we believe you will agree with this: your life is a matter of great interest to you, and your personal well-being is a prioritized and urgent topic, in the field of your cogitations, initiatives and decisions. Therefore, take this urgent call from us very seriously, transforming it, strongly and without fail, into attitude, discipline and, consequently, into destiny!
Regardless of who you are or whom you consider yourself to be, we believe you will agree with this: your life is a matter of great interest to you and your personal well-being is a priority and urgent topic, in the field of your musings, initiatives and decisions. Therefore, take our urgent call (for you to choose happiness) very seriously, transforming it, with energy and without delay, into attitude, discipline and, consequently, into destiny!
Spirit Eugenia- Aspasia
Medium: Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar.
February 19, 2015.